TPB – David D’Souza: Why Do New Managers Rely So Heavily on Management Support
Many workplaces feel fast and heavy right now, and managers sit under that pressure. organizations want good performance, strong teamwork, and steady progress, but the support that underpins all this often falls short.
People step into management because they’ve done well in their roles, only to face a job that looks simple on the surface but feels very different in practice. It’s a common story that raises real questions about how we build and sustain strong Management Support.
This is an area David D’Souza knows well. He’s the Director of Profession at CIPD, the United Kingdom’s leading people organization, and he’s spent about ten years helping workplaces build better standards for people management.
He is also Board Trustee at The RSA (The royal society for arts, manufactures and commerce), and MemberWise Ambassador at MemberWise Network. His interest began much earlier, when he took a supervisory role at Marks and Spencer with no training and had to learn fast.
That experience shaped his work in HR and later led him to CIPD, where he links research, guidance, and policy to help managers grow with confidence. He’s seen how poor support harms teams and how good management lifts performance, well-being, and trust.
In this article, we look at why accidental managers appear, why the costs feel so high, and what stronger support actually looks like. We also explore how care shapes behaviour, how line managers grow in real work, and how organizations can create the conditions that help managers lead with clarity.
Many people move into management without the help they actually need. It often starts with strong work in their current role. Someone notices, then offers a step up.
It sounds exciting, but the shift brings a whole new set of demands. Managing people asks for care, clarity, and steady judgment, and the jump can feel huge.

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CIPD’s Good Work Index shows a clear pattern. Around 40 percent of managers say they don’t get enough training or support. They assume the role and take on tasks they’ve never handled before.
Their team feels the strain too. Poor guidance slows progress, lowers confidence, and pushes good people to leave.
Many mid-sized organizations sit in a tricky spot. They have enough staff to need strong managers, but not enough resources to build solid training.
So management becomes an extra duty rather than a planned role. That creates mixed expectations and leaves new managers guessing their way through key moments.
When someone who loves their technical work becomes a manager, two things often change. The organization loses a strong performer and gains someone who hasn’t had time to learn how to support others. One unprepared manager can affect the team’s well-being, growth, and the quality of its work. It’s a serious ripple effect.
Stronger foundations can change the picture.
Many people say they avoid tough talks at work. The truth is, they handle tough talks in life already. The gap at work often comes from low care or low connection. A good manager steps in early, shows support, and helps people see what they need to change. Care makes the work stronger.
Care sits at the centre of good management. It shapes how people hear feedback, how they deal with stress, and how safe they feel at work. When care is present, even a hard message feels fair. When it’s missing, simple conversations feel heavy and confusing.

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Some workplaces speak warmly about being a family, but their actions don’t follow that tone. This mismatch creates doubt because people trust behaviour, not slogans. Care only works when it shows in everyday interactions and in the tough moments, too.
Care matters because it:
If someone believes their manager wants them to succeed, they respond to feedback with more confidence.
Management isn’t a box to tick. It’s a choice. It needs interest in people and a real wish to support growth. When organizations let people pick between a technical path and a people path, they send a clear message.
They treat management as a serious role, and they want leaders who actually want the work. This also protects teams from managers who feel pushed into something they never liked.
Management looks simple on paper, but the work stretches across many tasks. It involves performance support, well-being, honest communication, coaching, and team coordination. It also includes planning and helping people understand wider goals.
If someone tries to manage people and keep a full technical load, something gives. And it’s usually the people who work, because it’s harder to measure each day.
Here’s what managers often juggle:
Two people can leave the same meeting with opposite feelings. One feels supported. The other feels ignored. This difference shows why managers need both care and skill. No one gets every moment right, but steady effort and genuine intent help teams feel stronger, safer, and more confident.
Most managers learn through real work, not long courses. Daily tasks, quick guidance, and watching others handle tricky moments shape their skill far more than formal training.
When someone sees good practice in action and then hears a brief explanation, the learning feels natural and sticks.

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Some organizations don’t have enough HR support, and some have none at all. Managers in these settings still carry responsibility for their team, so they need simple ways to build confidence. The good news is that strong learning doesn’t always need money.
Useful, low-cost steps include:
These small habits help managers avoid that lost feeling and give them steady progress over time.
Managers need space in their week to support people properly. If the organization treats management as a tiny extra, managers copy that message. They rush through conversations, miss early signs of problems, and lean on guesswork.
Clear job design fixes this. It tells managers that supporting people, giving feedback, and shaping team culture are core duties. When that message is strong, managers invest real time in the role rather than squeezing it in around technical tasks.
Management quality shapes performance, retention, and well-being. A strong manager lifts a whole team. A weak one drains energy and creates quiet churn. Multiply that across an organization, and the impact becomes obvious. Multiply it across the country, and it turns into an economic issue.
There’s no single national fix because most learning happens in the flow of work. That said, organizations can still act. They can give managers time, simple tools, and steady guidance so they build skill with confidence and help their teams grow.
Better management grows when the environment supports it and when managers have space to think and act with intent. It’s not a quick fix. It’s a steady effort that shows up in daily habits and choices.

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Management is relational, so you feel its impact before you can measure it. That said, organizations can still shape the conditions that foster good practice.
Managers need time to reflect and plan. Without that space, they rush from task to task and lose sight of people. It’s frustrating for them and confusing for their teams. Giving managers time signals that people’s work matters as much as technical work.
Smaller organizations face another issue. They often rely on simple ratings to judge managers, but numbers can mislead. Very low scores point to poor practice. Very high ones can hide problems if the manager avoids hard calls. This shows why judgment must sit beside data.
Strong management begins with simple, shared basics, such as:
These basics give managers a starting point. As they grow, they can adapt their style, but they need the core skills first. It’s the same idea as learning the notes before you improvise.
Good managers reduce friction and help teams work with confidence. Poor managers drain energy and slow progress. One manager affects several people, and that effect compounds over time. It shapes culture, output, and retention.
Management quality shapes national productivity, yet it rarely receives enough attention. It’s hard to fix at scale because the work lives in daily behaviour. That said, organizations can still make clear progress. They can give time, structure, and simple tools that help managers show up well and support their teams with conviction.
Good management grows when people feel seen and supported. That’s the heart of this whole issue, and it shows up in every part of daily work. Strong managers steady a team. Weak ones slow things down. It’s that simple, and it affects far more than one bad week.
Managers need time, tools, and care. If they don’t get these, they guess their way through hard moments. Teams feel that guesswork at once, and stress builds fast. However, small steps change the picture.
A clear goal helps. A short chat helps. A calm tone helps. These things sound light, but they shift how people work and how they feel.
Good practice doesn’t ask for perfect skill. It asks for interest and intent. It asks managers to show up, listen, and guide. When organizations make space for that work, people gain trust and speak up early rather than late. Moreover, the whole team moves with more ease.
This is where Management Support matters. It gives managers what they need to act with purpose and keep their teams steady. It also protects the organization from quiet churn and slow progress.
The lesson is clear. When managers grow well, the whole place moves forward. When they don’t, everything drags. organizations that take this seriously don’t just fix problems. They build long-term strength.
Strong support gives a new manager a clear sense of direction. It helps them trust their judgement and handle early pressure with more ease. Without it, they second-guess simple choices and feel lost far too often.
People avoid small issues until they grow. Updates feel rushed, and the team works in short bursts rather than a steady flow. You also see quite a bit of frustration because no one feels guided.
It gives managers the skill and space to step in early. Clear guidance helps them hold calm talks before tension grows. This stops issues from turning into deeper disputes.
Strong technical skills don’t teach someone how to guide people. They need structure, feedback, and time to learn the basics of people work. Without these, they carry stress they can’t name.
Yes. When managers get steady guidance, they build trust with their teams. People then share concerns early because they believe someone will listen and act.
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